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Goal
Setting
The
importance of setting goals and values by millions of
wonderful people has not yet being realised. Setting
goals and values are powerful keys for success and
failing to set them will result in low productivity and
wasted time. If you achieve these "seven top traits of a
champion" you will have joined the 1% club. Once you
have mastered this technique, share it with others.
These seven traits can be easily remembered using the
following memory aid:
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V |
Values |
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I |
Immense Belief |
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S |
Strategy |
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Implementation |
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O |
Open Communication |
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N |
Never Failing to Review |
In all areas of my life, I've always
used the "seven top traits of a champion". Adhering to
them will almost guarantee freedom from a most dangerous
enemy, unproductiveness. Let me demonstrate.
Values
A value is defined as the thing that
is of most worth, desirability or importance to you.
What person, need, idea or situation that is of such
immense worth, desirability or importance, would cause
you to lay down your life or totally commit your life to
achieve? Only you can answer this question. Your values
are the foundation of your life or your reason for
living. Martin Luther King once said, "If a man has not
found a cause in life worth dying for, then he is not
fit to live." The thing that is worth dying for or
committing your life to achieve, is your value.
I will list my values as examples,
stated in order of priority. Listing my values was a
one-off investment that took nine hours to complete. I
will not need to do so again. Without them I was like a
blind man fumbling in the dark every day of my life.
Today I am confident, self motivated, joyous, peaceful
and on my way to greater victories. You too can
experience greater results if you follow this very
simple method. Remember, it is only a one-off investment
that can change your life, improve your family situation
and your organisation.
I have set clearly defined values
against which I can judge how successful I am. I call
this my root, my foundation, my constitution or my
Memorandum and Articles of Association. Without these
values I would be lost. They fall within eight
categories and priority order. The first two values,
spiritual and family, I would die for, but the
remainder, I only commit my whole life to achieve.
This is my life:
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Spiritual |
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2 |
Family |
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3 |
Health and Fitness |
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4 |
Financial |
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5 |
Community |
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6 |
Personal Development |
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7 |
Career |
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Social |
Spiritual Value
I love God with my
whole heart, soul, mind and strength.
Family Value
I am a loving, understanding,
knowledgable, discerning and wise husband to my wife and
father to my children.
I spend
quality time with my wife, children, extended family and
friends.
I help
them in their spiritual, intellectual, professional,
social, physical and financial needs.
I buil d
love, unity, togetherness and self esteem.
Health and Fitness Value
I maintain a healthy lifestyle
through proper eating, good breathing techniques and
regular exercise. I eat, drink, sleep and exercise in
such a manner so as to maintain an effective high level
of energy. I will never forget that my body is the
temple of the living God.
Financial Value
I am developing a
financial foundation to become completely debt free and
financially secure for many generations.
Community value
I will love, have compassion and
respect for all human beings of all ages, sexes and
cultures. I will visit the sick and prisoners. I will
feed the hungry, clothe the naked, befriend the
friendless and use my skills and knowledge to assist the
needy.
Personal Development Value
I am growing
intellectually daily and achieving my full potential. I
regularly listen to tapes, read books, watch videos and
listen to God and others. I listen with an open mind to
enhance my universe. I seek wisdom, knowledge,
understanding and discernment in areas of my profession,
which are:
Leadership
Organisational Development
Religion
Education and Training
Career Value
I am a national and
international role model in leadership, organisational
development, religion, education and training. I will
develop SCHOLAR, the channel through which I will secure
financial freedom and national and international status.
Social Value
I am fun loving, comical, stimulating
and a friendly person to get on with, in the shortest
possible time!
Without delay, write down your values
in order of priority, using the above eight categories.
Failing to establish your foundation will result in you
building on sand and not on a solid rock.
Remember, this is only a one-off,
lifetime investment.
Vision
You have completed listing your
values, roots, foundation, constitution or Memorandum
and Articles of Association. Call it what you want. It
is time now to build upon it. The next natural stage is
to clearly define your visions, aims, goals, objectives.
They all mean the same thing to me. So remember, without
a clearly defined vision you will not succeed. In fact
King Solomon puts it better:
"Where there is no vision, the people
perish:
but he that keep the law, happy is he."
Simple, no vision, no success.
When you list your visions, if it
fails to meet any of the nine criteria below, it is an
indication that it is not clearly defined. A vision that
is not clearly defined is like a camera out of focus,
always producing blurred pictures. Make sure that your
vision complies with the nine criteria below:
Ownership
Written
No Impatience
Estimated Timescale
Realistic and Achievable
Specific and Direct
Harmony with Values
It Must Be Measurable
Positively Stated
Ownership
The vision that you wish to fulfil
must be your own and not someone else's. No one must
force you. When you set your own vision you are more
motivated to achieve it.
Written
You must write down your vision
clearly and be specific. If you have not written down
your vision, it may be because you are not serious about
it.
No Impatience
Fulfilling a vision takes time,
effort and money and can be a frustrating experience. If
you do not develop the inner ability to be patient, you
may make hurried decisions, become stressed or
depressed. Feelings of this nature will only result in
you giving up. Do remember that you only fail when you
give up, so be patient and wait, for it will become a
reality.
Estimated Timescale
Example, "I will purchase my
Aeroplane on the 7 September 2010, at 12 midday." Set a
date and time by which this vision will be accomplished.
If you fail to set a timescale, there are no boundaries
within which to work and therefore this can be achieved
any time. "I asked you to produce the report", said the
manager. "I have not done it yet, because you did not
tell me when you wanted it to be ready by", replied the
employee. Set timescales in almost everything you do and
"save time."
Realistic and Achievable
You must set visions that are
realistic and achievable within the timescale that you
set. Failing to do this will result in frustration. Ask
yourself, can I achieve this vision within the timescale
that I have set? Do I have the opportunity right now or
do I need to wait for a more convenient time? Am I
taking on more than I can handle?
Specific and Direct
"I will purchase my Aeroplane on the
7 September 2010, at 12 midday", is specific and direct.
Do not beat around the bush about what you want to
achieve, get straight to the point.
Harmony with Values
The visions that you set must fall in
line with your values. If you set values for your
family, then set a vision that will drive you forward to
firmly establish that value. If one of your values is to
secure financial freedom, then show how this will be
achieved using the nine criteria - "OWNERSHIP". With all
values firmly established, the next stage is to use the
nine criteria, to establish the vision for each value.
It Must Be Measurable
If the vision is to be accomplished
in five years time, list all of the stepping stones to
getting there? List all short, medium and long term
objectives that must be achieved?
Positively Stated
"I want to achieve financial freedom
in five years, but I do not believe I will be able to."
This is a negative statement. Be positive. "I will
achieve financial freedom in five years." If this is not
realistic and achievable then move to six or even seven
years. It is completely up to you. Negative attitudes
produce negative actions. Positive attitudes produce
positive actions.
Immense Belief
Immense belief is powerful, because
what we believe we act out. You must believe in yourself
and in your ability to succeed. If you believe you
cannot do something, you will not try as hard. Immense
belief comes from within and must be self generated. The
more you focus and meditate on your vision the more you
generate immense belief. When I mentally hold my vision
in my mind and think on it day and night, it is as if I
am drawing electricity from a power station. I have used
this method for over sixteen years and I have never lost
my immense belief. It has caused me to rise early to see
what a new day will bring. Try it and feel the power!
Strategy
Almost everything in life operates
via a strategy. The birth and development of a child,
transportation, machinery, building construction,
cooking, sports, the human body, the sun revolving
around the earth and more. If you can identify and use
the best possible strategy in your chosen field, you
could become one of the worlds greatest contributors.
When I take my car to Mr Jones, my mechanic, he first
runs the car through a few tests to locate the problem.
What was he really doing? He was using a problem
identification strategy.
A few years ago every company had a
typewriter, now almost everyone uses computers. Why?
Someone has come up with a better strategy. When a
consultant comes into a company s/he will ask to see
your Memorandum and Article of Association, the last
three years accounts, current business plan and more.
What is s/he doing? Using a strategy to identify your
present business situation.
As a child growing up in Jamaica and
coming to England at twelve years old, I hated school
because of how I was treated. I left school at fifteen
without sitting a single examination, I could barely
read and write. The next seven years of my life was
hell, until at the age of twenty-five I discovered that
if I could improve on a few strategies, my life would
automatically improve.
I started out in the field of
training in 1984 and since then I have consistently
improved every strategy in that area of my expertise. I
used to use a chalk board, I now use magic white boards.
I used to use overhead projectors, I now use multimedia
projection through my laptop computer. I used to use an
ordinary diary, I now use The Franklin Day Planner
system, one of the best time and life management systems
in the world. I used to give my delegates poor ways to
remember what they had learnt, now I use the most
effective and efficient ways of remembering. This book
is full of them. Planning training sessions has become
easier and teaching more fun. I've realised that sooner
or later if I don't come up with a better strategy,
someone else will.
Let us review what you have completed
so far, you have:
Listed
your values.
Put them in order of priority.
Listed your visions for each value using the nine
criteria - OWNERSHIP.
Now take each vision and develop a
strategic plan.
Implementation
A thousand mile journey begins with
one single step. To read a book begins with a single
word. The hour begins with a single second. Be
consistent and do a little every day. I watch tennis
players when the Wimbledon tournament begins in London
and often wondered why they take so much time to serve
for a single point. Their concentration, speed, accuracy
and determination is electric. They take their time, use
maximum concentration, skill, knowledge and energy to
win the point. Why? Because they are only playing for a
single point at a time in their mind. Yes, a single
point, not two or three sets, just one point. This is
the attitude of a true champion in the making. Some
people look at their past and become disheartened and
discouraged because of what they used to do and because
of this their actions are affected. Champions do not get
caught up with their past, other than to learn from it.
They are disciplined, self-controlled and patient. They
have realised that yesterday is a cancelled cheq ue and
tomorrow is a promissory note but right now it's cash in
hand and if they do not use it, they will lose it. Do
not let yesterday's failures stop you from doing your
best today.
Open Communication
The tongue has the power of life and
death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.4
The human tongue is one of the most lethal weapons on
the face of the earth. We use it to encourage, give
support, express our love and at the same time it can be
used to discourage, destroy and express bitter hatred.
No tree produces two different kinds of fruit, but the
tongue can, in quick time. What kind of thoughts do you
have about yourself and others? What kind of words do
you use to your spouse, children, colleagues, customers
and others. Whichever route you take, you will eat the
fruit thereof, because the seed that you sow, you will
reap. Not only will you affect the life of others but
you will also affect your own life.
Remember this fact, every time you
have a thought or speak a word,
it falls within one of two categories, death or life.
Open communication deals with what we
say to others and ourselves. Some people use a style of
intimidation to put off their opponent in order to win a
game. I have often observed boxers and wrestlers as they
try to defeat each other before they get into the ring.
They declare how great they are and how easy it will be
for them to defeat each other. Some make sure their
opponent reads it in the newspaper, watches it on the
television or hears it on the radio. This form of open
communication is designed to intimidate and produce
fear. The most dangerous form of open communication has
got to be what we say to ourselves.
During a game of squash, I am always
having a conference with myself, which goes something
like this. "Well done Errol, you lost that point but you
tried your very best." "You played a great shot my son."
"What a great point I just lost." "My opponent is very
good but I am better." "I can if I keep on believing I
can." "Unlucky Errol." "I must use the SAS" (Special Air
Service? Not quite. "Speed, Accuracy and Stamina.")
What we say out loud is often an
indication of the conference going on inside of us. Be
careful who you invite to your conferences. Do not
invite Mr Doubt, Mr Lack of Confidence, Mr Do Little,
Mrs Hopeless, Mr & Mrs Fear or Miss I Can't. They like
you, in fact they love you. It has been said that 70% of
what we say to ourselves is often negative. Stop saying
negative things to yourself and others, especially your
family. Negative internal communication leads to
negative action, and negative actions leads to negative
results.
Never Failing to Review
Failing to review may result in you
failing to learn what to do or not to do. Review
everything so as to improve performance. Ask yourself:
1. Have my values changed?
2. Have I achieved my vision?
3. How effective was my strategy?
4. How appropriate was the
implementation?
5. Was my internal and external
communication befitting? 6. What have I learnt?
My time management system allows me
to review every single day of my life. It gives me the
opportunity to assess how effective I was with my 24
hours. I set aside 15-20 minutes every morning to review
my values, visions, strategies and daily priorities.
This time is known as my QUEST. Quiet Uninterrupted
Empowering Solitary Time. Champions never fail to
review.
Summary
Step one: Record all your values
and put them in order of priority.
Step two: Take each value one at
a time and record all your vision/s for that value.
Step three: Believe in yourself
and in your ability to become the best you could
possibly be.
Step four: Take each vision and
develop a strategic plan.
Step five: Put your plan into
action.
Step six: Because you are always
thinking or talking, use it to your advantage by
encouraging yourself and others. Think of life-giving
thoughts and speak life-giving words.
Step seven: Review all of the above weekly. |